This year, as the last few, is often defined by the difficulties we have all experienced. I think it is time to look at the flip side of our travails.  

Despite the continuing struggles, we have only to consider how many have moved mountains to be with family, not only in the warmth of spring to fall but noticeably in the cold and difficulties of winter.

What was the inspiration for most of the travel? Family! Terry and I were among those counting the days (after counting the years!) to get to a time when we could travel to Raleigh for Thanksgiving with my sister, beloved brother-in-law, and their children. That holiday had been the happiest over many years until the pandemic, and a new addition to the family, had to put celebrating together on hold until all were safe.

We had always loved Thanksgiving, but never as much as this year. And realizing we were not unique but legion was inspiring. I believe knowing the entire country seemed to feel the same way made us more aware of how alike we can be in the best of times. These could have been identified as the worst of times were it not for our combined love of family.

Today, I am really content to have my health and celebrate with each side of our families. It occurs to me that I do not give a thought to receiving gifts. While Terry asked me each day what I wanted, I could not think of anything. And our daughter has said for years now, "No gifts! " (That doesn't mean for the young children, but it is just right for adults.)

I can remember my mother saying she did not want any gifts. We would not listen. Now I know.
The time comes eventually when we realize being with family and other loved ones is the greatest gift of all.

The last realization is that giving gifts is not the same as giving of ourselves. Talking to and truly listening to those we love or those in need of love can be the greatest of gifts. That is truly the kind of giving that never goes out of style and is always what everyone really wants. Imagine that!